Dynamics, in this instance is stimulating development or progress. What do you do when that begins to change? The lesson in all of my past relationships has always been, “even when it looks good… it’s not.” Well that’s the real lesson but I do believe that although a little bitter sounding, there’s some truth to that! At least in the moment that something you thought was so perfect, ends. When things go array in your relationship, can’t you simply communicate? If there’s love there, shouldn’t two people be trying to exhaust all the possibilities before letting go. I believe ANY two people on the face of this earth can make a relationship work as long as they both want it and they both try. When one starts to give up, the dynamics change.
Things that you used to love about them, now irritate you. You don’t desire them physically anymore, you don’t call as often, you don’t feel the need to be romantic anymore, you’d rather spend time alone or with friends….etc….
If this isn’t your story and you and your honey are going through it and you’re ready to let it go, DON’T hold on tight. It could be a lot worse. Keep your dynamics in tact! Good Luck!
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